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Autistic Techie is a podcast for neurodivergent professionals in tech—engineers, designers, PMs, and more—who think and work differently. Whether you're autistic, ADHD, dyslexic, or otherwise wired in a nontraditional way, this show explores how to navigate the tech world on your own terms. Hosted by an autistic tech lead and self-advocate, each episode dives into self-advocacy, communication, career growth, and the lived experiences of neurodivergent technologists. Everyone’s brain is different—and that’s the point.

Your host Shea Belsky interviews guests from all different kinds of workplaces, from huge enterprises to startups and self-run businesses. He'll provide personal insights from his own experiences to empower you to be a more meaningful self-advocate in the workplace.

July 1, 2025
From Chaos to Clarity: Jennifer Chou's ADHD Journey to 80K Followers And Owning Her Brain

What even is ADHD hacking? Is it possible to stick joysticks in your brain like Plankton did in that Spongebob episode and actually do everything that has to happen? Jennifer Chou has done that and more, cultivating more than 80 thousand social media followers across Instagram and TikTok. Sure we can all indulge in some doom scrolling, and to be honest, who doesn't these days? Jennifer has figured out the best strategies, plans, and methods to really get us out of bed and hit the books. Tune into this episode of Autistic Techie where we dive into her ADHD college journey, journaling our thoughts, and setting proper goals. 

June 24, 2025
Deep Dive Into “Working With Me” Documents and How They Can Peel Back Your Brain

"Spelling it out" for people doesn't have to be hard. On the contrary, you can get into as much detail about your brain and working style as you want. The trick is to do so in a way that actually empowers your boss and team to help you, and not feel inundated with information. Enter the Working with Me document: An excellent method for communicating how to work with you. What helps you do your job? What gets in the way? Do you have any sensory needs? It's all about YOU. I go  through my Working with Me document in today's episode, and you can follow along by checking out the link below!

June 17, 2025
Late Diagnosed AuDHD, Leadership, and What Masking Means To Me with Nicola Knobel

What's your internal "script" that you follow when dealing with troublesome situations? If you have to consciously remember to keep a straight face when confronted with something stressful, you are far from alone. Nicola Knobel spent most of her life masking, frustrated with having to defend her actions and expend significant amounts of energy just to be like everyone else. "But you're so extroverted!" people would say...Because everyone expected her to be that way. Having been diagnosed with autism and ADHD (also known as AuDHD) well into adulthood and parenthood, Nicola opens up on our latest episode about her diagnosis journey, honest masking, and letting her guard down around her coworkers. 

June 17, 2025
Crossover Episode with Neurodiversity in the Workplace: Don’t Just Survive - Thrive on the Job

Special crossover episode! I had the honor of joining forces Sean Gill from Neurodiversity in the Workplace for their podcast. Together, we dove deep into the unique challenges and opportunities faced by neurodivergent people in and out of the workplace. Landing a job isn't just about surviving and getting by - We talked about how to thrive, supporting both neurodivergent peers and their employers, including neurotypical peers who work with ND folks just as much as their managers do. And to us neurodivergent folks, some tips and tricks on what it means to feel like you belong, and not just exist.

June 10, 2025
Building A Formula For Your Neurodivergent Mask

Do you want to build a mask? It's summer in the USA, so no snowmen here. But you're always going to be wearing a mask to get through tough situations. Interviews? Networking events? Parties? Snowman building parties with corporate matchmaking afterwards? Our newest episode talks about the process of building a mask thoughtfully, not just bruteforcing a social setting and hoping that you'll be OK afterwards. If you've ever gotten stuck on figuring out how you should be masking, this is the episode for you...

June 3, 2025
Autistic Empathy, Workplace Politics, and Saying The Right Things with Adam Compton

In this episode of Autistic Techie, I sit down with Adam Compton, a principal software engineer with over two decades of experience at top tech companies. We explore Adam's journey from a childhood fascination with computers to mastering complex systems at companies like Slack and Quantcast. Adam shares insights into navigating workplace politics and the unique challenges faced by neurodivergent individuals in tech. We delve into his experiences with autistic empathy, masking, and the intricacies of social interactions. Adam also discusses the importance of balancing technical expertise with people skills, offering valuable advice for thriving in the tech industry

May 27, 2025
Coding Interviews, ADHD, and Staying Focused with Mihai Todor

Coding interviews are one of the most difficult things a neurodivergent software engineer can go through. Whiteboarding, coding challenges, and explaining technical concepts are tough for everyone, especially for those whose don't express ideas in quite the same way as everyone else. Mihai Todor has gone through hundreds of coding interviews, and he has some incredible insights to share! We talked about self regulating during interviews, what kind of tech works and what doesn't, and setting specific boundaries for the kinds of interviews he can do.

May 20, 2025
Acing the Interview: Behavioral Questions "Tell Me About A Time When..."

Does your brain freeze up when you hear this question? "Tell me about a time when..." Yeah, mine too. And for many other neurodivergent people, having to come up with an answer to questions like this can feel like running into a brick wall. But there's good news: Providing a meaningful answer to this kind of question doesn't have to be as scary or impossible as you might think. Let's get the inside scoop on approaching this kind of question from the neurodivergent perspective. You'll be shooting for the STARs in no time!

May 13, 2025
Sensory Regulation and Helping Yourself When You’re Overwhelmed

Neurodivergent people are no strangers to sensory dysregulation - This is a fancy term which, in short, means "I am not able to regulate your emotions and/or my sensory environment." Your sensory struggles can and often do impact your emotions and vice versa. When you're in a tough environment and find yourself in an overwhelming situation, what can you do? Let's dive into these feelings together, talk about some strategies to help you in the workplace, and unpack some ways you can think about dysregulation when it comes to your needs.

 

May 6, 2025
ADHD Liberation, Coaching, and Productivity with Brittany Smith
You've heard about coaches before, but for people who have ADHD? Is that even a thing? 100% it is, and Brittany Smith is one of the best. An ADHDer herself, Brittany is the mastermind behind Conquer Consulting, whose mission is to help you un-suck your brain and get you back to doing the things you enjoy. She also runs the ADHD Guild, a place for neurospicy people to find community, support each other, and find shared accountability. In this episode, we talk about ADHD coaching, the dreaded ADHD tax, strategies and tips that work for neurodivergent people, and having a conversation with your inner critic.
 
April 29, 2025
ND Connect: Neurodivergent Mentorship and Friendship with Eliana Bravos and Jacob Estep
You've said this to yourself: "I need a friend! Someone who gets it!" Enter ND Connect, a website whose mission is to connect neurodivergent people with friends, mentors, and other like-minded folk who actually understand what it means to be neurodivergent. You don't have to go into the world alone all the time. If you could meet people who've gone through similar struggles as you, whose brains operate similarly, and can provide you with actually relevant advice, you'd wanna find them, right? I got to talk with two of the cofounders of ND Connect: Eliana Bravos and Jacob Estep and learn all about their journeys with neurodiversity, founding the website, and how their brains really work!
 
April 22, 2025
Dyslexia Advocacy and Engineering Management with Nicholas Solter

Nicholas Solter is an incredible parent of a dyslexic daughter, and his advocacy has completely transformed his engineering management approach. He has a storied tech career that has been shaped by his daughter's struggles, triumphs, and personal epiphanies. Join us as we talk about how inclusion and accessibility inform Nicholas' approach to building teams, working on projects, and the history that led him here

April 15, 2025
Tinkering with Tech and Hyper Focus with Mathew Hultquist

Mat Hultquist has spent most of his life tinkering with technology in some way, messing with his family computer and working his way up to doing IT work at his high school. Who else could be a more accurate description of an "autistic techie"? Mat is a former colleague of Shea's at Mentra and is now a software engineer at Lattice. Join us as we talk about his self discovery of autism & ADHD, how hyperfocus helps him get work done, and how other people can be more supportive of neurodivergent people in their lives.

April 8, 2025
Capes, Kryptonite, and Neurodivergent Autonomy with Sheldon Gay

In this episode of Autistic Techie, I chat with Sheldon Gay, the National Vice Chair of Umbrella US, founder of Techano Solutions, and neurodivergent self advocate. Sheldon is also the host of his own podcast, "I Must Be BUG'N" where he talks about neurodiversity too!
Sheldon's story is one of late diagnosis, navigating career changes from mechanical engineering to product management, and running his own technology business. We talked about intersectionality and Sheldon's upbringing in Philadelphia, how neurodivergence appears to other people in the tech industry, standing up for yourself, and helping other autistic/ADHDers advocate for themselves more clearly.

April 1, 2025
Using AI to Supercharge Your Brain with Elias Kouloures
We live in a AI dominated world, whether we like it or not. The variety, complexity, and difficulty of these tools is intimidating for everyone, neurodiverse folks especially. Elias Kouloures has figured out how to take the best of AI tools and support his work and lifestyle, while being aware of its shortcomings and what to look out for. Join us for a deep dive on how AI can support neurodiverse people in their decision making, executive functioning, and indulgence in special interests!
 
March 25, 2025
Sense-Ational You: Sensory Friendly Clothing and Adaptive Fashion with Julia DeNey
Adaptive fashion is a burgeoning industry, and neurodivergent people are in need of sensory friendly clothing. Sense-Ational You is a clothing line whose mission is to address the sensory and accessibility needs of kids and adults everywhere. Julia DeNey joins Autistic Techie to talk about the journey to founding Sense-Ational You, how her studies and experiences led her to this career path, and how the brand creates community for people who may never have had one.
 
March 18, 2025
Burnout, Baking, and Being a Business Owner with Jared Williams

Burnout affects everyone at some point in their careers, and neurodivergent people are no exception to this. Because of how much it takes to mask, we burn out more than neurotypical people do! Jared Williams, a former Mentra colleague of mine and now the General Manager of Florecita Panadería bakery, talks about his journey in the startup world, venture capital, knowing when he'd hit his limit, and discovering what it meant to take the reins of his career into his own hands.

March 11, 2025
How Do I Know If A Company Is Neurodivergent Friendly?

Jobseeking is a painful process, and that's even more true for neurodiverse people. How can you tell if a company is inclusive and can support you? Surprisingly, there are many ways you can figure out whether a potential employer supports neurodiversity or not. Some of these things can even be done before you start working on an application! This episode talks through all the ways you can evaluate this for yourself, from before the application, through the interview process, and after you've landed an offer.

March 4, 2025
Setting Boundaries and Discovering Your Autistic Self with Cat Contillo

Join me as I sit down with Cat Contillo, a cybersecurity expert and multidisciplinary artist who is also a passionate advocate for autism and accessibility. Cat shares her journey from studying social work to becoming a cybersecurity professional, driven by her desire to help others and her love for technology. We discuss her late autism diagnosis and how it transformed her understanding of herself, leading to her advocacy for neurodiversity and accessibility in tech.

February 25, 2025
"But You Don't Look Autistic!" How Should You Respond?

How should you respond if someone says that you don't "look" neurodivergent? Does neurodiversity actually have a "look"? We unpack the meaning of this question, where it might come from, and how you can stand up for yourself when confronted with this.

February 18, 2025
What Belonging Means to Neurodiverse People

What does it mean to belong? How do you know when you've found a place where you can thrive? Is it a job, a club, group, something else? This episode unpacks that strange fuzzy feeling when you're just vibing with the people around you. They welcome you with open arms. And if that space doesn't exist, nothing's stopping you from making it.

February 11, 2025
Should I Tell My Boss & Team That I'm Neurodivergent?

The age old question: Should I tell my boss that I'm neurodivergent? The answer has a surprising amount of nuance beyond a simple "yes" or "no" response. Let's unpack why it's a complicated question with an even more nuanced answer.

February 4, 2025
Your First Day on a New Job (And You're Freaking Out)

The first day of a new job can be a scary thing. It's OK to feel overwhelmed in the beginning, but what if you could feel more prepared? And find your sense of comfort along the way? This episode unpacks your first day or so to help you hit a great stride when everything around you is brand new.